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0:00You said it too, you was like,
0:01you said bubba and son, name, golden, name,
0:02boy, I got it together, I can't remember.
0:04I'm like, I don't know.
0:07First, you're supposed to be holding this, boy.
0:10Like this, like that.
0:11So, on tonight's episode.
0:13Where the uh?
0:14Pull up after dark.
0:15Pull up after dark, there we go, I like that.
0:17Pull up after dark.
0:18Pull up after dark, what's up?
0:20We gotta miss him.
0:21You should be sold in the union, y'all.
0:23One day, he gonna get my podcast name right, y'all.
0:26That day will come.
0:30I wanna ask y'all, how do y'all feel about
0:34taking your relationship public,
0:35versus having that private?
0:37Don't do it?
0:40Speak on it, speak on it.
0:42I don't want to talk about personal spirits I had.
0:45We won't say no names.
0:46We won't say no names.
0:48G will meet her.
0:49Where are the others?
0:51Hater.
0:53Me too, I put she hanging with me, y'all.
0:55See, they were a bastard.
0:57She wanted to murder, but he like,
0:59I don't want her to get with you, bro.
1:02Why'd that bring you to these?
1:04That is the question.
1:05That's another story for the day, y'all.
1:06I can't believe that.
1:08To this day.
1:08To this day.
1:09I was nice to her.
1:11My gosh, and I wish I would've been rude.
1:14So I would be an Eric podcast now,
1:16but whenever I bring you around,
1:17I'm like, that ain't never, that's it, dawg.
1:20Right.
1:21I'm so glad it's over with.
1:22But, though, yeah, she was one of the people
1:25who was like, I want you to
1:27announce our relationship on social media.
1:31In like the dummy hours.
1:34I put it on Facebook, but I put it on Facebook first, right?
1:37Yeah, and you didn't even warn your team, by the way.
1:39I did not.
1:40I did not.
1:41Because she was like, do it, do it, do it.
1:42Do it right now.
1:43On some games.
1:44I was like, okay, yeah, yeah.
1:47She was like, go do it right now.
1:48Are you in danger?
1:51Like, I don't do it, she's like,
1:53no, do it right now.
1:54Right in front of us, I see.
1:55Oh my gosh.
1:57That's threaded.
1:59So I did it, my dummy.
2:02And I want to say, not even the hour,
2:04it was like 20 minutes later.
2:06Text me, text me, text me, text me, text me.
2:09Hey Brandon, somebody hacked your page.
2:11Brandon, somebody hacked your, Brandon, what?
2:13Someone got your page?
2:15Oh man, I was gonna ask the cash, but what?
2:19I'm like, nah, that was a hack, man.
2:21That one, that was me.
2:23That was me.
2:26It wasn't even, it was, it was everybody.
2:28Everybody was like, man.
2:29Yeah, you're just like, what?
2:31It's people like, for real, bro.
2:34Can we even, the fact I have been divorced,
2:36I've been married, I've been everything in between,
2:39and I've never poked my relationship status, right?
2:42And the fact that out of the blue,
2:44I was just like, hey, I'm in a relationship with a guy.
2:46One, it was just out of character, right?
2:49Yeah.
2:49And then two, it didn't solidify our relationship at all.
2:55If anything, it probably made it just that much worse.
2:58It's why we need to prove our relationship
3:00or what we're dealing with.
3:02Tied up so.
3:03Yeah.
3:04So don't do it.
3:06Don't do it.
3:07Well, I thought to ask the expert or what not,
3:10you know?
3:11Yeah, you know, the love relationship code.
3:14So it's Coach B.
3:16Not really, that's probably taken already.
3:19Don't come for me.
3:21Don't swear.
3:22I'm just new to this space, okay?
3:25Don't come for me.
3:26But however, new to the certification,
3:29but I've been doing this a long time
3:30as far as giving advice.
3:32So don't, you know, let's not knock that part.
3:34But anywho, to get to the question,
3:36I tried it as well.
3:39I only, but here's the thing.
3:41I didn't change statuses like Facebook or whatever.
3:44I just did like a snippet of them on my story
3:48and it still sparked like,
3:50oh, I'm a little boy.
3:51This is the back of his,
3:52how do you recognize on the back?
3:55Oh, I know her back.
3:56I don't know about your gondor and downs.
3:58Like, you're with such and such.
4:00It's like, how do you know?
4:01Like, I need to show a spade in the back.
4:04I was like, okay.
4:05Well.
4:08I screenshot it, then I zoomed in and then.
4:11Oh yeah.
4:13But in it, and that relationship didn't,
4:15you know, honestly, it soured out.
4:18And, you know, you do look kind of, you know,
4:21crazy on these streets, you know.
4:23Crazy, for sure.
4:25So I have learned as much as, okay.
4:28And I know my females can help me out with this one.
4:31You do want it to be known that you got a man,
4:33especially if he's a good man,
4:35but you don't want to at the same time.
4:38It's very conflicting.
4:40Cause you know, I am currently with a wonderful man.
4:44Hey, hit that buzzer one time.
4:46Hey.
4:48And that's relationship of my life.
4:50And I wanted to, I do want to share the great news
4:53to the world, but it's also like,
4:55I don't want to jeopardize what we have by, you know,
5:00thirsty heathens finding out and next thing I know,
5:04you know.
5:05So, I don't know.
5:06I just prefer to keep it tight, you know,
5:08tight-lipped until,
5:11give me that ring and then it's all over.
5:13It's all over the world.
5:16What's on the bag?
5:18Hey, what did you say about the son?
5:19He said, he said, I want to keep the world for my son.
5:22What did he say?
5:23I try to keep my kid from the world,
5:25not the world for my kid.
5:27Something like that, yeah.
5:28Something like that, but long story short,
5:30you don't, you're not shielding
5:33your relationship from the world.
5:34No, you don't say it.
5:36Yeah, yeah, and you ain't shielding the world
5:38from your relationship, you shielding the relationship.
5:41There we go.
5:41Well, is that a go?
5:43He gets it.
5:44He gets it.
5:45You know, he already had it in the mind.
5:47Come on, that's why we can't see.
5:49But I mean, as far as public and private,
5:52I mean, me personally, I'm a private person.
5:56So, as much as private as possible,
6:00but I do feel,
6:04like you said, a snippet, a slither or something,
6:08you know, even relationship status,
6:10if y'all at that point and had them talks,
6:13you know, every relationship deserves that.
6:15Yeah, for sure.
6:17And then whatever, you know,
6:19y'all both feel comfortable with, you know?
6:22Maybe one does, one doesn't,
6:24will come with a happy medium, happy balance.
6:27You know, that's just my thoughts on it.
6:29I feel like you make it public,
6:31then once you lay everybody in a relationship,
6:33you gotta know what it's over with, too.
6:34Like, it's just y'all.
6:35That's true.
6:37If you're not around now, then it ain't fair.
6:38Now they invested now.
6:39Yeah, well, I don't think they could've cut it off at though,
6:43you know what I'm saying?
6:44But the more it's that no, no,
6:45just like y'all, y'all know,
6:47y'all probably be the first to know.
6:50And, you know, I don't think I'll not together no more.
6:55Oh, so, so, no, then it's not,
6:57other people's jobs to say,
6:58oh, they're not together anymore.
7:00So, it's just like, if you know, you know, you know?
7:04Yeah, yeah, I'm just gonna assume
7:05if you would say a one-day relationship,
7:07but then it starts to change,
7:09people let you know.
7:10Yes, Facebook definitely let you know.
7:12Here's the crazy part.
7:14So, I got all of these birthday comments
7:17and Facebook, right?
7:19And, you know, I don't know what made me narrow in
7:21on this certain person.
7:23I won't say who, but we know, we know who it is.
7:28And they basically called me out of all,
7:34oh, you're single, didn't know that.
7:36And I'm like, when did I ever give all that I'm single?
7:41So, I guess they read way more into my post
7:45than they should have.
7:46I was like, oh, bet.
7:47And I went to my relationship desk
7:48and I just put in a relationship.
7:49I never said who, he will still remain nameless,
7:53even though he does not mind being out there.
7:56Cause we did a vlog to get, well, I did,
7:58I'm trying to get a vlog together
7:59when we went to New Orleans.
8:00And he was like, I don't care if you show me.
8:02And I'm like, for real, if I don't care.
8:04I'm like, okay, this is gonna be it if I do that.
8:08Cause, you know, I can only capture
8:09but so much of the trip without capturing him.
8:11So, I've still been too retarded
8:13if I wanna release a vlog or whatever.
8:16But that person called me out and I was like, okay.
8:18Well, I changed the status,
8:19but you ain't gonna know who until I get that ring.
8:22Just saying.
8:22Yeah, that's the thing too.
8:25Like, I think that sometimes is enough, you know?
8:28Everybody doesn't have to know everything
8:30or every detail or this and this and that.
8:34And the relationship, I'm cool, I'm happy.
8:36The mystery makes people want to know more, so they'll,
8:39they'll be drawn to you more.
8:40I'm on the side of that too.
8:42Hey, okay, Steve, I like the wingsaws
8:44and this side's the mystery.
8:46Hey, that could be the title.
8:47Well, I mean, you know, as we're creating content,
8:50we actually post it on social media every day.
8:53So, that's our little challenge.
8:56Lorenz take all of our apps,
8:58more sheds than that.
9:00Three people who have been in relationships
9:01more than 20 plus years
9:02and you don't know where their spots are.
9:05And it all said, they keep the rest of it private
9:07for that very reason.
9:09If you can't interrupt something that they don't know,
9:10you don't know anything about it.
9:11That's a good point.
9:12But they still don't mind.
9:14No, no, they don't mind.
9:15But you're right.
9:16But you're not posting about that shit.
9:19They're not hiding their wives in caves
9:22or, you know what I'm saying, out late,
9:23but they're not.
9:23That's a good point.
9:24They're not kind of getting in kid Kardashian.
9:27Yeah.
9:28But you know what, and that's a good point
9:29because those are great couples that,
9:31like you said, are really doing it
9:32and you don't hear no negative dirt
9:35or anything going on behind the scenes.
9:38And Boris Kojo and Nicole,
9:40they also been 20 something years.
9:44And you can just tell the authentic happy couples
9:49because they're living life to the fullest.
9:50And like you said,
9:51it don't have to be for show all the time.
9:53Now, will you get little glimpses
9:55and little snippets of their happy life
9:57every once in a while?
9:59Absolutely.
9:59And it helps to make you want to have that for yourself.
10:03You know what I mean?
10:04But you're right.
10:05It's not all up in your face.
10:06Like, unfortunately, bless yous.
10:10Like cashed out on her, dude.
10:11You know, every time we turned around,
10:13they was there and-
10:14But you know what?
10:16They don't want some double marriage.
10:18The relationships are fabricated by the-
10:21All by the industry?
10:23Yeah.
10:23These are relationships.
10:24These are literally relationships where they pay
10:26one side of the table to say,
10:28hey, I mean, we need to get some promotion for this album
10:32or publicity for this movie.
10:34Let's present a relationship to help promote it.
10:36Oh, wow.
10:37So I don't even translate into that part.
10:39You mean the party with Stefan was on?
10:43I don't know.
10:45We'll find out later on.
10:46I committed it 20 years from now or not.
10:48But I'm pretty sure he was having fun.
10:52Of course.
10:53That's what I'm saying, though.
10:54But like, so I feel like what you're doing
10:56for the grandma, for social media,
10:58I feel like it's not a thing.
11:00I'm like, and then-
11:01That's true.
11:02What's the one guy who was our relationship coach
11:05and he was our chairman's wife?
11:07Oh, Derrick Jackson.
11:08Yeah, her big example.
11:10Her big example.
11:10Public is hell.
11:12Yeah, that was-
11:14In doing the most.
11:15That was bad.
11:16So that's what I'm saying, the more public it to me,
11:19the more I feel like-
11:22Yeah, yeah.
11:24Or the more it's like this.
11:25Right, right, right.
11:26Are y'all really happy?
11:27Do we trust this tease?
11:28Are y'all really happy?
11:30You know what I'm saying?
11:30Because if you were happy,
11:31why do you have to prove that he was yours?
11:32Yeah, there's almost like a reality show almost
11:35every day or every post, you know?
11:37Day after the day.
11:39People knowing you every move and stuff like that.
11:42At the end of the day,
11:43we're public figures of celebrities, you know?
11:46So it's like, just think about that, right?
11:48We step outside.
11:50Oh, copper russies in our face.
11:51Oh, I heard y'all was in an argument.
11:53Da-da-da-da-da-da.
11:54Like, is there-
11:55Right.
11:56Everybody wants to deal with that also, so.
11:58Nobody talking about it with my kids.
11:59They're like, I know you have kids.
12:01You have my kids.
12:02Wow, that's how private you are.
12:04It's not for you to know.
12:06Yeah.
12:06You see your social media is what I want you to see.
12:08Absolutely.
12:09Nothing more, nothing less.
12:11Nothing more, nothing less.
12:12It's about business.
12:15Yes.
12:15Yes, because we are professional.
12:17We're professional.
12:19Yeah, professional.
12:20Pac-ass.
12:21Don't do it.
12:24So yeah.
12:24Hey, hey, they pressure you to do it
12:26as a super bread platinum guy.
12:28And then, you're like, you know what?
12:31I don't need to tell you about my relationship status
12:33because we're no longer together.
12:35I could say, learn from me.
12:37Don't do it.
12:39I mean, but that's cool with all the extra bells
12:41and whistles, I don't-
12:43Well, wait, when would you feel
12:45that you would share a snippet of your significant other?
12:51Well, I feel like, I don't know.
12:53That'd be, I mean, it's not like-
12:54Do you feel like it would be-
12:55It's not a mad day moment.
12:56It's like, hey, by the way,
12:58we celebrate Christmas this year
12:59and just pop up with a photo.
13:02When I'm sippin' on to you, I spill it fine.
13:06This episode is about to be by to you.
13:08Get you lit every time.
13:12Oh, but you said something raining or something.
13:14Something raining, you will get to know who he is.
13:19It's not gonna be all up in your face either.
13:21It's not gonna be thrown out to you.
13:22Oh, I said, we're all gonna be like you.
13:24Throw it all.
13:25It's gonna be a pat of the comfy ceiling.
13:29And that's it.
13:32I'd probably make that a podcast episode.
13:35Run it back.
13:36I heard that.
13:37I won.
13:39I did.
13:42That actually gives me a good podcast episode.
13:44I would.
13:45Who is my fiance?
13:48When that time comes, speaking into existence.
13:50Y'all gotta speak it into existence.
13:52Manifest, manifest what you want.
13:53That was good.
13:54That's gonna break the internet.
13:56It won't break the internet for real.
13:57You know, it's gonna be a river of tears.
14:01What she done is a process.
14:03Sister Pallis, I'm this.
14:05Zephyr's have a sniper.
14:08I'll go shoot my sardines, you know?
14:12You know what, I'm not following her.
14:15You know, they'll be crying in the streets, man.
14:17They gonna cry in the car.
14:19They'll be crying, bruh,
14:20because they, oh my God,
14:22they're gonna shoot me in the shot, bruh.
14:24So crazy.
14:25The way you do it, it's gonna be,
14:27the streets gonna be, it's gonna be running with tears.
14:30I see it almost every other episode.
14:33I was like, today.
14:39They're playing with the whole leg.
14:42What's up, buddy?
14:44It's gonna break the internet.
14:45Man, it won't break the internet.
14:47You're gonna break the internet, bruh.
14:49They're gonna, they're gonna report your page.
14:51Hey, this, hey.
14:53This is, hey.
14:55This is, this is, this is, this is,
14:57this page is being forced.
14:58Dang.
14:59Trying to shut me ass.
15:00Well, they ain't got multiple.
15:02Yeah, they ain't, they,
15:04the streets gonna, the streets gonna be crying that day.
15:06Oh, you know.
15:07They gonna be crying that day.
15:09But-
15:09There is a beauty for everybody out there.
15:11You will find your queen.
15:14You see told.
15:15You see told.
15:17Not beauty be told, like some people just saying.
15:22Not that.
15:22They're the operant.
15:24The operant.
15:25Oh yeah.
15:25And I wasn't looking for long time.
15:27So that's how we do it.
15:31They looked it up on the business search
15:33and hope it don't exist again.
15:34Oh, man.
15:36Wait, what the hell?
15:37Like, oh no.
15:39They don't give all around,
15:40they give all around less of the vice.
15:42He do his job.
15:43Oh man.
15:44She the Monday, Wednesday, Friday.
15:45Her name's the third.
15:48So not all Sunday, you rest.
15:50Sunday, you rest.
15:51Oh, goodness.
15:53That's how you do it.
15:54That's tribe and traffic though.
15:56I don't know what that mean.
15:57That's cynical.
15:58Cynical.
15:59That it.
16:00That was your beauty be told.
16:03And since he is liquor,
16:05it's Hennessy that drink out the tea.
16:07Oh man.
16:09Got some drink we could.
16:11That was still hot.
16:12Maybe had-
16:13Speaking of which,
16:14you see told will be coming out with a nudge.
16:17I would say.
16:19That will be a great master by the way.
16:22Old wine and once.
16:25Oh, that went to the fruit and they all pink.
16:30Still of the worm.
16:32But what she already,
16:33yeah, she already got a pink one,
16:34but maybe we can do a one with different flavor
16:37if it was good.
16:37The design.
16:39Yeah.
16:40Lemonade.
16:41That is what it is.
16:42Yeah.
16:42Two of them.
16:43Pink moscato on it.
16:44Well, no, she got a lemon drive.
16:46Lemon drive, lemonade.
16:48And then it's got a hollow out for it.
16:50So you wines y'all.
16:51So you wines and beauty tell me we collaborating.
16:54Talk to the queen about it.
16:56That's the difference of experience.
16:58Dude, we collaborate.
17:00Don't miss you.
17:03How y'all feeling?
17:04Pretty tired.
17:07Had a long day.
17:08Close it out.
17:09Close it out.
17:10Listen, listen y'all.
17:10Don't do it.
17:12Don't do it.
17:13What's my advice?
17:14That's all of our advice.
17:16Well, this has been.
17:19Well, I don't know.
17:20This full thing is gonna be a group.
17:21We gonna up that all three, five bars.
17:23Yeah, my girl.
17:24All of y'all there.
17:26All right.
17:27Now, would you collaborate?
17:28Like how you do with Instagram and YouTube?
17:30Oh, yeah, they would.
17:32He build YouTube though.
17:34You will have to drive because YouTube are like me.
17:36Every time I post, they be like failed.
17:39So you gonna have to post it.
17:41Yeah.
17:44Me.
17:45I could do it to my, the audio platform.
17:48You gonna tell me this or no?
17:52How many minutes is it?
17:54You're right.
17:54It's a short one.
17:55We're just gonna edit.
17:56Five minutes, all right?
17:57We're gonna edit.
17:58Oh, here we go.
17:59We gotta put this in.
18:00Put this in again.
18:02I know what they say.
18:04Yeah, okay, we'll get it.
18:05Okay, well don't do it.
18:05I'll say we live though.
18:07We live now.
18:08I know now.
18:10We got it.
18:10I'll do it.
18:11Why y'all drew that?
18:12So I can just need the rest.
18:14This has been a great after night edition ever.
18:18This is the experience.
18:19And you know why we did this y'all?
18:20For some reason we be sitting around, just sitting around
18:22and we like, we need to record this.
18:24We get it.
18:25We did it.
18:26We did it.
18:26Y'all should be proud of us.
18:27Trying out the computer mics, you know.
18:31Yeah, these nice too.
18:33I feel all fancy.
18:34You know, so I got the box to go put on the mic.
18:38I said, I'll put it on there.
18:39And that's what I was saying.
18:41We're the coders.
18:42Yeah, literally the video marriage.
18:44We gonna do it right now.
18:47And there we go.
18:49I forgot besides, okay, I said the name, then what?
18:56Hold on, close this up.
18:57Oh, don't say it no more.
18:58I know that.
18:59I got that word.
19:00Hey though.
19:00Hey y'all, we live.
19:03Okay, I just need the number.
19:05When are like 13 or something?
19:0624.
19:07Oh, okay.
19:07And then I already got the, I got the symbol.
19:09I got the symbol.
19:10Oh, okay.
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